What’s Willfully Living all about?
It all starts with Self-Love. 💗
As RuPaul famously says:
"If you can't love yourself, how in the hell are you gonna love somebody else? Can I get an amen?"
Self-Love isn’t just a nice idea- it’s the foundation required to have a life you love.
But let’s be real- you can’t get there with a wish and a wand. 🪄😉
True self-love comes from releasing past traumas, healing old wounds, rewriting your story, and letting go of anything that tells you you’re not enough or not worthy of love.
(Spoiler alert: You are. And you always have been.)
From this foundation of Self-Love, we unlock Authenticity.
When you love yourself, you see yourself clearly. You honor your truth. You embrace who you were always meant to be.
Rooted in self-love and authenticity, you then find the courage and confidence to move into true Self Expression, sharing who you are out loud and without apology.
When you deeply know yourself, fiercely love yourself, and courageously express your truth, living intentionally (or Willfully Living) becomes second nature.
You begin to consciously create a life aligned with your highest path, one deliberate, heart-centered choice at a time. ❤️
You now have the freedom to live boldly, speak your truth, and own your power. No more playing small. No more dimming your light.
Just you, fully living, a purposeful, fulfilling and joyful life.
And when you do that, something incredible happens. Your passions, dreams, and talents—the ones buried under years of conditioning? They come roaring back to life. And the world needs that version of you.
Your soul is ready for this. Are you?
Let’s talk. Book a free Visioning Session call today. 👇
What does this process make possible for you?
You begin to stand tall in your power, deeply aligned with who you truly are.
You express your uniqueness and confidently share your gifts with the world.
You make decisions from a place of clarity, no longer bending to people-pleasing or shrinking yourself to fit.
You let down walls and lead with your heart, cultivating relationships that nourish your soul.
You reclaim the dreams and desires you once abandoned, breathing them back to life through empowering new beliefs and inspired actions.
You fully embody the truth that you are enough, exactly as you are.
You radiate authentic confidence, rooted in self-love and self-trust.
You consciously create a life overflowing with joy, peace, and purpose.
Who is this Wil Fisher guy..?
I’m a loving, adventurous, playful, and creative soul who deeply believes in the power of personal growth and spiritual transformation. My mission is to support other GBTQ men on their journeys toward self-love, authenticity, and profound fulfillment.
As you might guess by my big goofy “life is freaking awesome!” grin, I’m genuinely joyful and deeply fulfilled today—but that definitely wasn’t always the case.
Growing up in a home overshadowed by addiction, alcoholism, and abuse, neither home nor school felt safe—especially as a gay kid navigating bullying. Those early experiences impacted my worldview, launching me into cycles of people-pleasing, unhealthy habits, and relentless self-sabotage. For years, I chased a version of success that wasn’t aligned with my true self.
Everything shifted dramatically when I took on a consulting role at a nonprofit LGBTQ retreat center in usstate New York, eventually becoming its Executive Director. Immersed daily in profound healing and transformative experiences, I had the incredible privilege of learning directly from gifted healers, powerful shamans, visionary coaches, and spiritual guides from around the globe. These experiences taught me firsthand that deep transformation and lasting healing were not only possible—they were available to me.
Through this powerful journey, I learned how to release old traumas, rewrite disempowering narratives, and overcome patterns holding me back. I moved from self-doubt and shame into authentic self-love, confidence, and empowered living.
Since leaving the retreat center and returning to the West Coast to be near family, I've continued deepening my healing path. I've achieved the highest certifications in multiple transformative modalities, including my Master Certified Coach (MCC) credential, and becoming a Master Practitioner of NLP and hypnotherapy (see the full list here).
Spirituality is at the cornerstone of my journey. While coming to know the deeper truths about myself, I’ve also come to know deeper truths about Spirit. And this ever-deepening relationship with Spirit serves as an essential, empowering source of guidance and support.
Spirituality is at the cornerstone of my journey. While coming to know the deeper truths about myself, I’ve also come to know deeper truths about Spirit. And this ever-deepening relationship with Spirit serves as an essential, empowering source of guidance and support.
Today, it is my greatest honor to pass along the wisdom, tools, and compassionate guidance I've gratefully received from my mentors and lived experiences. My deepest passion is supporting my clients in healing past traumas, releasing limiting beliefs, cultivating profound self-love, and courageously connecting with—and acting from—their highest selves.
Is this Wil guy really for me…?
Let’s be real—I’m not for everyone. But if any of this resonates, there’s a good chance we’ll be a powerful match:
You’re tired of the status quo and craving a more fulfilling, and joyful life.
You know you have way more life experiences and achievements that you’re called to create.
You’re sick of the inner critic whispering you’re not enough, not worthy, not lovable—and you’re ready to replace it with self-loving beliefs and empowering self-talk.
Maybe you’ve done lots of inner work already, but you still sense something deeper is waiting to be unlocked.
You desire a more meaningful relationship with spirituality, but you’re unsure where to start or how to deepen it.
You’re craving structure, rituals, and/or practices to support your personal and spiritual growth.
You’re ready to feel safe to be fully yourself- expressing your authenticity and full humanity without apologies.
You long to move through the world with a more open heart, building deeper connections with others and with life itself.
You want someone who can show you practical ways to get from insecure to confident, stuck to thriving, fearful to courageous.
You want to feel more creative, more alive, and more playful in your everyday life.
You’re ready to stop shrinking for others and start living fully because life’s too short to keep waiting.
Even if part of you doubts your ability to change, you’re ready to take the first step and discover what’s possible.
If any of this resonates, trust the nudge. We just might be meant to meet… 😉✨
Journeys I Love to Take My Clients On
Many paths. One destination: real transformation.
When you say YES to this work, you're saying YES to powerful change: both within yourself and in the way your life looks and feels. My intention for every journey is that you emerge more aligned, more empowered, and more authentically YOU.
Together, we’ll get clear on the transformation you're desiring. Then, we'll co-create a personalized path towards that transformation, using methods proven to deliver real, lasting results.
Whether you're seeking deep healing, bold breakthroughs, or a combination of both I’ve got offerings ready to meet you exactly where you are:
Virtual Coaching Sessions – on Zoom
In-Person Coaching Sessions – For that grounded, face-to-face magic and deeper energetic connection
Personal One-on-One Retreats – Immersive, custom-curated experiences designed just for you
Group Retreats – Powerful community experiences fostering collective healing, growth, and joyful connection
Hybrid Packages – Intentionally blending multiple offerings into a potent journey of transformation
No matter the path, you’ll be guided, supported, and deeply held every step of the way. Let's discover what’s possible together.
Stuff worth bragging about..
I’m pretty proud of my accomplishments. To show my credibility, I thought I’d mention some of them:
Master Certified Coach (MCC) with the International Coaches Federation (ICF)
Former Executive Director of Easton Mountain
Certified Practitioner of “Respectful Confrontation”
Master Practitioner of Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), Hypnotherapy, and Timeline Therapy.
Certified Reiki practioner.
Host and Founder of Queerly Beloved Podcast
Current member of Shared Delusions, an improv Theater Troupe
MA in Applied Theater + BFA in Classical Theater
Former Director of Special Events and Communications for The Ali Forney Center
Writer, Producer, and Performer of “Off and On Again” a solo-show about my relationship with drag and gender.Co-Founder of Man Question, an applied theater-based company combatting toxic masculinity.
Former Board Chair of Letter of Marque Theater Company
Former Northeast Director of Scouting for All
Graduate of full Landmark Forum curriculum.
Wil in the press.
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